Design memory for a personal AI assistant that remembers users across sessions.
Cross-session memory is what makes an assistant feel personal, and it is mostly a retrieval and state-management problem rather than a bigger context window. The signal is the tiered architecture plus what to store, forget, and protect.
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Cross-session memory is what makes an assistant feel personal, and it is mostly a retrieval and state-management problem rather than a bigger context window. The signal is the tiered architecture plus what to store, forget, and protect.
Lead with where the obvious approach breaks, because that is the judgment they are screening for — most candidates jump straight to the happy path and lose the room.
Then walk the failure back through the pipeline in order, naming the one metric the customer's exec sponsor actually cares about before you propose the fix.